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Recently, I came upon an article in The New York Times by Ellen Barry titled, “Autism, A.D.H.D., Anxiety: Can a Diagnosis Make You Better?” She begins by telling us about a woman in her early 50s who, upon getting a diagnosis of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, “described it as a profound relief, releasing her from years of self-blame — about missed deadlines and lost receipts, but also things that were deeper and more complicated, like her sensitivity to injustice.” Other people Ms. Barry met who were given a “diagnosis” of autism spectrum disorder also experienced it as relief. Simply putting a name to it seemed to help.
Negative Effects Emerging
However, Ms. Barry notes that evidence is emerging that over the long term, diagnosing these conditions doesn’t help. “Yes,” she says, “there is a positive effect of lowered self-blame. But there is a negative effect as well–a greater pessimism about recovery.”
Defending her position, Ms. Barry describes a study that looked into this negative effect. The study identified no significant differences in the demographic characteristics or socio-emotional wellbeing of 9-year-olds with hyperactivity/inattention who had and who had not received a diagnosis of ADHD. However, by age 13, those who had a diagnosis at age 9 showed more emotional and peer relationship problems, worse prosocial behaviour, and poorer self-concept.
Other research found that those who were treated with A.D.H.D. medication, in the long run, did no better academically while suffering a variety of negative effects from the prescribed drugs such as becoming addicted to the drug, along with head and stomach aches,
Last year, a study found that even a medium strength daily dose of Adderall, the most commonly prescribed drug to treat A.D.H.D., more than tripled a patient’s likelihood of developing psychosis or mania. A high dose increased the risk by a factor of five. And yet, another study found that the height suppression found in earlier studies, which were thought to be temporary, found that nine years after treatment, the height gap remained. The subjects’ A.D.H.D. symptoms, meanwhile, were no better than those who had stopped taking the medication or who had never started.
Benefits To Realizing The Characteristics That Lead To An A.D.H.D. Diagnosis Are Often Not Permanent
Recent researchers have been discovering that A.D.H.D. behavior characteristics can be highly responsive to the environment. 
When the surroundings of a person with an A.D.H.D. diagnosis better matches the person’s interests and talents or home life improves, the behavior pattern that led to the “diagnosis” often improves as well.
We need people with different interests and talents to fill the various roles society values. Someone who enjoys painting houses might find sitting all day in front of a computer screen very boring, while others enjoy a job that has them engaging for hours on a computer. Fortunately, we have a need for both types, and conceptualizing one or the other as having a pathological condition does not appear to be helpful in the long run. Much better is to provide narratives that demonstrate people who find they are inattentive in certain settings, such as the typical school classroom, may very well do much better in some other environments better suited to them. More and more, research is demonstrating this is true.
In 2016, Arielle Lasky and other members of her research team published a paper that describes their discussions with subjects who had been given a diagnosis of A.D.H.D. as children, but were now in their mid-20s. Subject after subject spontaneously brought up the importance of finding their “niche,” or the right “fit,” in school or in the workplace. As adults, they had more freedom than they did as children to control the parameters of their lives — whether to go to college, what to study, what kind of career to pursue. Many of them had sensibly chosen contexts that were a better match for their personalities than what they experienced in school, and as a result, they reported that their A.D.H.D. symptoms had disappeared. In fact, some of them were questioning whether they had ever had a disorder at all — or if they had just been in the wrong environment as children.
The work environments where the subjects were thriving varied. For some, the appeal of their new jobs was that they were busy and cognitively demanding, requiring constant multitasking. For others, the right context was physical, hands-on labor. For all of them, what made a difference was having work that to them felt “intrinsically interesting.”
One subject, who was studying film in college, said that his ability to thrive in his chosen field made him question the years he spent being treated for A.D.H.D. “Originally, when I was first diagnosed with it, it was explained to me as attention deficit, just a lack of attention,” he said. “An ability not to have an attention span for very long. But I can have an attention span for extremely long for the things that I care about.”
A hairstylist told the researchers that her inability to concentrate in school vanished when she began studying hair. “If you sit up there and give me a lecture on a haircut, I will remember everything you said, word for word,” she said. “Stuff that I’m into, I am so immersed in it. But in school, it was awful.”
A young man who was training to be an auto technician said that in his new career, his A.D.H.D. was no longer an issue. “It’s just that I had to figure out what I wanted to do,” he explained. “I want to work with cars. I don’t get bored doing that. If people with A.D.H.D. are directed into areas where their strengths and interests lie, I’m pretty sure that they can naturally just go about dealing with it, instead of having to give people medications.”
Instead of characterizing A.D.H.D. as a medical disorder, which tends to lead people to believe they are defective, perhaps suggesting to them that they may have an “Attention Priority Difference” might be better. For some children, a different school, or a different kind of school, might produce the same profound shift that we are finding in recent research studies.
In a 2021 review paper, researchers found 14 studies in which receiving an A.D.H.D. diagnosis seemed to create a sense of “empowerment” by “supporting a sense of legitimacy accompanied by understanding and sympathy as well as decreased guilt, blame and anger.” In 22 other studies this team found, “a biomedical view of difficulties was shown to be associated with disempowerment. By providing an excuse for problems, a decrease in responsibility by all involved can occur, often followed by inaction and stagnation.” An additional 14 studies found that the diagnosis increased feelings of stigmatization. “The diagnosis can create an identity that enhances prejudice and judgment, which are associated with even greater feelings of isolation, exclusion and shame.”
Conclusion
Admittedly, the A.D.H.D.medical model provides parents and students a simple explanation for their children’s problems that can bring about relief and reduce blame, at least in the short term. However, the Attention Priority Difference model can do this as well and more accurately reflects the latest scientific understanding that a student’s environmental context can dramatically alter the concerning behavior. Rather than our society spending millions of dollars on drugs that people have become convinced is a quick fix to these problems, the Attention Priority Difference idea can offer for many a valuable alternative. It can motivate schools to provide more varied classroom activities that are designed to better match the various interests and talents of their students who are bored with the traditional approach that has students sitting at their desks doing seat work for unbearably long hours. And it can give these children a vision of their future in which things might actually improve — not because their brains are chemically refashioned in a way that makes them better able to fit into the world, but because they find a way to make the world fit better with whom they are.
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Although the drugged ADHD students didn’t do any better by the time they graduated high school than the non-drugged ADHD diagnosed students, many endured uncomfortable drug side effects, such as sleep problems, headaches, stomach aches, and feelings of depression each evening when the drug wore off.
Briefly, the main side effects of the commonly prescribed drugs for so called “ADHD” are:
In my earlier blog posts, I also reviewed research studies that indicate that almost immediately after taking these types of drugs, many children will complete more academic work and get more of the items correct. Parents also tend to report behavioral improvements. But these effects begin to wane. According to the best available evidence, by a little over a year, any perceived improvement, when objectively measured, had completely disappeared. The available studies indicate no lasting benefits for those who use them in terms of academic achievement, social outcomes, and high school graduation rates. In the end, thousands of dollars have been spent and the drug treated children, having suffered the various side-effects and been subjected to serious risks are no better off than children who had similar behavior challenges but did not take any of the ADHD drugs.
“Researchers in Taiwan looked at data from 378,881 children ages 4 to 17 and found that students born in August, the cut-off month for school entry in that country, were more likely to be given diagnoses of A.D.H.D. than students born in September. The children born in September would have missed the previous year’s cut-off date for school entry, and thus had nearly a full extra year to mature before entering school.”
On March 13, 2016, 
In my opinion, I did not have a medical illness. Out on the streets of Brooklyn, I was as healthy as a horse as I got into handball, basketball, and stickball games for hours and hours during my free time. Nevertheless, I am certain that if my parents had taken me to a doctor in this modern world of ours, I very likely would have been given an ADHD label and placed on one of the ADHD drugs.